Showing posts with label packing. Show all posts
Showing posts with label packing. Show all posts

Friday, July 13, 2018

Long Island Friends "See-You-Soons" 2018

The last two weeks we were packing up to move, we spent a lot of quality time with friends.

Sunday, July 1, we spent quality time with Erica, Kyle, and Kasey at her place, and Friday, July 6, they came to our place.

Visiting Kyle 2018

Visiting Kyle 2018

July 2018
Playing in our backyard one last time


July 2018

Saturday, July 7, we watched the sunset at the beach with Candance, Darin, and Caris.

Cedar Beach Sunset 2018

Cedar Beach Sunset 2018

Cedar Beach Sunset 2018

Cedar Beach Sunset 2018

Cedar Beach Sunset 2018

Cedar Beach Sunset 2018

Cedar Beach Sunset 2018

Tuesday, July 10, we saw Carrie, Nolan, and Ella at their place.

Playdate - July 2018 

Playdate - July 2018 

Playdate - July 2018

Playdate - July 2018

We also ran into Erica and Kyle at Splish Splash our last week, and then Erica came by to say goodbye on our last day (closing).

Splish Splash 2018
Splish Splash Lazy River with Erica and Kyle, July 8?

Last Day in LI 2018
Erica selfie, July 12

Finally, we spent lots of quality time with our neighbor Carol before leaving, including our last day in Long Island.

Last Day in LI 2018
Loving up Carol, July 12

Love all of you so much, and can't wait to see you guys again!

Tuesday, July 10, 2018

Moving 2018

Moving was exhausting, and writing about it is probably exhausting too, so here's a summary. I got rid of stuff in March when I didn't know if we'd move- but not that much. Then I got rid of more from April-June when I heard we would move. And we were going to get two PODS but at the last minute we decided, what the heck, let's just throw out/gift/donate/sell whatever doesn't fit in one POD. The end. I have a bed, a table, two chairs, and 5 million books. Omaha, here we come!

June 2018
Packing and disassembling.

Moving- July 2018
One POD

Moving- July 2018
One box of books

Moving- July 2018
More books

Moving- July 2018
Books, toys, clothes, and so many blankets

Moving- July 2018
Things are getting intense.

July 2018
Not going to lie, I cried quite a bit.

July 2018
Packed, bubble-wrapped and roped up.

Empty MP House 2018
Mostly empty

Empty MP House 2018
Empty!

Saturday, May 26, 2018

Things My Wife Complains About #32: Packing

When I met my wife, she had one condition: Move me to Nebraska in the next twelve years or I'll find someone who can. I'm ready to deliver, and we move to Omaha this summer. The only problem: packing. Who is going to put all of the things we own, almost all of which we neither like nor need, into boxes? The answer, unfortunately, is she is. While I've been dutifully unpacking my juvenalia, texting pictures of it to my high school and college friends, and then putting that back into the same boxes, she has been depositing the rest of the house into boxes, taping those boxes, and stacking them in our den.

How many blankets do you think we own? The answer is 5,000,000,000,000, after we donated a bunch. My wife, personally, has 36 tank tops (actual number), which is good because Nebraska screams tank top. We also have several million legos of mutually exclusive sizes. Our kids have not been super helpful. Whenever we secretly remove something, they not only find it but also passionately love it, regardless of how long it's been since they played with it. There are stuffed animals they haven't seen in years, which they now treat as siblings. When I donated a stroller that my daughter no longer used, she stood in the door like a child from a Stephen King novel, staring down the person from Craigslist.

My wife, on the whole, has maintained a pretty good attitude. Not even three times a day she says some variation of "I hate everything" or, more convincingly, "I'm burning everything." But she hasn't burned one thing. Instead, she's packed it all into boxes, and after those boxes have been moved, they'll be unpacked, where she'll remember how much she neither needed nor liked the things inside in the first place. Then we'll get a bunch of new stuff.

Possible solutions!
1) Buy new blankets in Omaha.
2) Commute to Nebraska from New York.
3) Make honest and responsible decisions about what we care about and prepare our future accordingly (hard)

moving 2018
How much for 36 tank tops?

moving 2018

Saturday, September 3, 2016

Kindergarten Orientation 2016

James is starting Kindergarten on Tuesday! So far, we've had two visits to his new school. Last week we got to walk around the building together. We were actually supposed to drop off supplies then too, but we hadn't been able to find the supply list until that day. Tuesday we had Kindergarten Orientation. The kids went to their classroom with PTO volunteers and rode the school bus around town. They also very briefly met their teacher.

Kindergarten Orientation 2016
The bus for the kids ride around the school

Kindergarten Orientation 2016
James is excited and happy to start soon

Kindergarten Orientation 2016
Parents checking in

Kindergarten Orientation 2016
James visiting his class

The adults sat in an auditorium that was 500 degrees, heard about the school, and briefly saw the Kindergarten teachers. We also got advice regarding packing snacks and lunches, sending kids on the bus, picking up from school, and not freaking out as a parent so that your kids maintain their cool. At the end we got to meet some of the other parents in our class. The first mom I met was named Erica and her husband's name is Kevin. True story.

Kindergarten Orientation 2016
The long sad walk away from my kid... sniff.

Kindergarten Orientation 2016
Auditorium full of Long Island parents, and now I'm one too.
They were playing, "Forever Young," by Rod Stewart.

Kindergarten Orientation 2016
Introducing the Kindergarten teachers! There's Mr. J in purple.

Kindergarten Orientation 2016
There are 5 classes,  with about 20 kids each!

Kindergarten Orientation 2016
Picking up James from his orientation. His new BFF is pointing to him.

School Supplies for Kindergarten 2016-17
So many school supplies!

Sunday, October 25, 2015

KonMari Progress- Forward and Back 2015

I blogged a whole bunch of times about KonMari in the previous months. My motivation kind of took a nose dive when we moved in the middle of my process (at about 4 and half months). For a month I had to focus on packing and unpacking instead of Konmaring. But moving was itself interesting in the middle of the process. When confronted with having to move the object to a new house there was a point in favor of discarding the item rather than the usual default of wanting to keep it. I also handled everything we own twice because I packed and unpacked almost everything.


August 2015
Unpacked new smaller house- Love all the free space with less stuff!

But then, I thought I was in sentimental items, and when we got to the new place I realized I had totally blown the Komono step. This is what Marie Kondo calls the step where you do all the "miscellaneous" items that just aren't clothing, books, papers, or sentimental items. Well, that's the biggest category and I really didn't push myself very hard on it. So a lot of my unpacking time was been trying to deal with all these items that don't necessarily fit into my life now. For example all of our CDs... really torn about whether to keep them when I rarely play music off them. I don't know why I had less trouble discarding clothing and books which I care a lot more about, than I'm having getting rid of CDs, but there it is. Also, the solution to convert our VHS home movies into DVDs will take time and money, etc. So I'm back to dealing with all that.

Some additional things have found their way into the house in the meanwhile, though we try to control that, but the new house had some new needs. Then once I lost the momentum of having a regular time to work on it each week, it's been hard to get back in.

Also, when I saw the huge positive effect Konmari was having in my life and in my way of thinking, I decide to find and apply similar processes to other problems in my life. So I discovered Dave Ramsey, and it's totally changed how I view and handle finances in my life-- for the better. Much better!

Next I decided that the weight I was dragging around wasn't sparking joy (duh) and there had to be a more motivational way of getting rid of it. So I discovered Alternate Day Fasting, which is supposed to make it easier to lose weight, and more importantly, reduce your chance of getting cancer or weight-related illnesses like diabbetes. The diet costs nothing (actually saves you money) and I've lost 17 pounds since the end of June. (I started on 5:2, but now I do 4:3 or 5:2 depending on how well the week is going.) But my focus on these new projects distracted me from Konmari. It's difficult right now to keep myself from moving on to even more projects before having finished this one.

This is a chart of my weight (and averages) since November 2008, and the correlation with some big projects I took on. Almost back to a healthy weight now. (First time since 2007 which isn't even on this chart.)

weight chart - october 2015
Seven-Year Weight Chart (11/2008-10/2015)

So now it's been a bit over 7 months since I started, and I still plan on finishing my Konmari "festival" by the end of this year. It will be amazing to know I am surrounded by what I love. But no matter what, Konmari has already changed my life a lot (just like Marie promised) and changed how I approach and surpass challenges.

I found this video by a blogger I already knew and like, Laura of HowToGYST.com, and yes, totally agree with almost everything she says, except the less shopping is a huge plus for me, not a con.

Friday, May 11, 2012

Southeast Roadtrip: Before the Trip 2012

In case you're wondering if we're really going through with this craziness, yes we are. Here's the proof. By the way, packing for yourself and your baby for over 17 days is hard. We haven't even left yet, and I'm already exhausted.

Southeast Roadtrip 2012
Yesterday: Packing in progress

Southeast Roadtrip 2012
I wish, so much easier than listening to him scream!
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