If you haven't met James yet, FORGET YOU. No! Just kidding. I remember back when I was childless, I didn't always rush out to meet my friends' amazingly beautiful and talented offspring. Sometimes it took me over a year to meet their kiddies. When I could, I did, but time and distance can be prohibitive. Nonetheless, I do celebrate the people in our lives who come to see James. If you love him, we love you even more. That's just the way that works.